The First Housefather: Helping Boys Find Their Voice

At Pestalozzi Zambia, Housefather Felix Kahalu is doing something quietly transformative - helping boys open up. Houseparents live alongside the children, guiding and caring for them throughout their years at the Village - providing the stability, structure, and warmth of family life. Felix, our first male houseparent, has already made a remarkable impact.

In a world where young men often struggle to share their feelings or ask for help, Felix has created a home where it’s safe to talk, to be honest, and to be vulnerable. With his calm presence and gentle humour, he encourages the boys to express what’s on their minds - from schoolwork to worries about family or friendships.

They describe him as a father figure who listens without judgment and helps them find strength through understanding, not silence. His care has strengthened their confidence, resilience, and emotional well-being - proving that support for boys’ mental health can begin simply, with kindness and trust.

Felix’s story reflects what Pestalozzi stands for: nurturing not just bright minds, but healthy hearts. With your support, we can continue creating spaces where every child feels seen, heard, and valued.